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DID YOU MEAN WHAT YOU SAID?!

He blew into my life like a sweet summer breeze, Stole my heart in an instant, made me weak in the knees... He seemed so sincere when he'd look in my eyes And say the things I've waited to hear my whole life. I thought he was different... I thought he was real. I never thought I could feel the way he made me feel. I just don't understand why he wasted the time When there was nothing to gain on his end or mine. It was perfectly senseless...not one reason why. He would just disappear without saying goodbye. He had me floating on air, then let me crash to the ground. It's too much to wrap my mind around. Why play at being real? No one wins in the end. Someone always gets hurt when the other pretends. Why say all those things when you don't mean a word? It's mean and it's cruel...it's completely absurd. Now I'm left here to wonder what could've gone wrong, Why he just stopped calling, why he strung me along? My thoughts, th

MY BEST FRIEND

You always answer when I call And help me up if I should fall, But you never complain at all, My true friend. You confront me when I am wrong But will never scold me for long, Instead, you try to keep me strong, My true friend. You know the funny things to say To make me laugh my fears away. Like the sun, you brighten my day, My true friend. You see in me gifts I deny And urge me to give things a try. You spread for me my wings to fly, My true friend. You always perceive what I need And offer it before I plead. Just like a book, my mind you read, My true friend. You value little things I do But won't brag of what you do too. How can I ever repay you, My true friend? And greatest of all I have found When times are tough and I'm down, You are the one who sticks around, My true friend

5 ways To avoid nervousness

5 ways To avoid nervousness Nervousness can easily get the best of us. In situations like public speaking, first date, meeting new people, interviews and so on, most of us tends to feel highly excited, acutely uneasy and unnatural. This can be easily detected by the person you are with or the people you are addressing. Nervousness can be a serious disease for most people but it can also be cured so easily. I've witnessed it being a big problem to most of my friends and that's why I decided to share with you my experience on how to overcome nervousness. Dress comfortably This applies all through. Whether you are going for a date, an interview , a public speaking session, or somewhere new, you should put on clothes that you feel comfortable wearing. You might have that pair of Jordans that you like so much but your feet don't fit easily, no. You won't be able to walk easily and you won't be at ease. You might also have that pair of heels that you purchased just the

MY ENCOUNTER WITH FIRST SIGHT ATTRACTION

First sight attraction So I believe all of us have come across the question; do you believe in love at first sight? Well, everyone has his or her own answers to that. Basically love at first sight is that strong and romantic feeling of attraction to a stranger or someone you are meeting for the first time. My first experience of love at first sight, I was in my third year in High School. This particular day we had closed school for a few weeks holiday and I was traveling back home by a public bus. The distance from school to home was quite long   approximately eight hours journey. I was seated at the back seats feeling so exhausted and stressed since I had not performed very well that semester and I had to take my results home. We had traveled approximately three quarters of the journey. Then the bus stopped by to pick some passengers. The bus took quite some time at the bus stop and I felt asleep on the other seat next to mine meant for another passenger. After a few minutes, in m

WHY IS UNDERSTANDING SO IMPORTANT?

Why is UNDERSTANDING more important? I've come across many successful and successfully unsuccessful relationships and this kind of got me thinking of the reasons why some people can't have each other for even a month while others go for over fifty years. The question I always ask myself is "why do you have to marry or propose to someone,then after a few days later you are no more?" It's obvious that at the moment you are getting married, there must be Love between the two parties. I bet you can't propose or say yes to someone you don't really love. Well, you can, for some rare cases, but most often, you'll only marry someone you love. Then why do you end up parting ways? After a while you'll start hearing words like," I loved you but I don't love you anymore," "we were not meant to be," "I'm giving up on you," "you are always negative on me"...and many more. If you have gone through such, you are n

IT CAME SLOWLY

I  never thought this would happen. It took time i came so slowly. buh took all of me wholly I never knew i would fall in love again Although love had cost me a lot of pain It like floods started by a drop of rain Now you have no idea how much  you mean to me. Just be good to me. I know how it feels when you say im  your world.  While im there lacking even a word. Falling in love with you is like falling in a pit without hit a bottom. It doesn't matter the background we both come from. What matters is,will we be together during and after prom? You have all my time,all the attention,because i can't be at ease without you. I wont talk about how good your kisses are, I would rather talk about how tasty your lips are. .......TO BE CONTINUED Click to Read More   this can be the last post, comment if you want more posts thank you

UNDER THE CASHEW NUT TREE

My mind was  not at ease, I decided to sit on that old chair under the cashew nut tree, Birds were singing and  there was a  cool breeze. I looked the way the leaves  and twigs swung free. The chair was meant for two, I knew the other space was meant for you. But i was there  alone. This is the spot we used to meet but now you're gone. This is the spot i used to hear everything sweet. It was where i proposed but you said ''NO'' And the pain you left me with was more than that of heartbreak. You told me we were just friend,nothing more. And every word from you was like a sour herb i couldn't take ----------------------------------------------------------- Even the birds had stopped singing and dancing No breeze,no twigs and leaves swinging Tears were already flowing,i had been crying . I collected my pieces,doubting each of my thought. I thought you're the one and your not. Again i thought you would consider me.you didn't I was friend

WHEN I WAS YOUNG

I would hide my arms in my shirt and tell people I've lost my arms.🙈 I would restart a video game when I knew I was going to loose.😂 I ,not once, made my friends think they have got something either on the back or the forehead and pretend that I'm rubbing it but end up smacking real hard 😂😂 lol😂😂 I would close my eyes and act like nobody is seeing me 😵  I would sleep with all stuffed animals so none of them gets offended😅😅 I had that one pen with six colours and wanted to push all the buttons at once. If you never used it then you missed out on such a great  item. Or do they still exist😂😂  I would pour soda on the caps and act like I'm taking shots at the bubbles..like pap pap pap 😈 . I would wait behind the door to scare someone,but ended up leaving the scene  because they took long or I had to go pee or took another direction instead 😭 I would fake being asleep so my mom would carry me to bed. I would even hold my breath to make the nap seem more legi

DIME PIECE

The piece of my life, rare to find The Dime that took me years to find Miss to my wife, I won't mind I saw you I became blind Unable to see any prettier soul I heard your voice I became deaf Unable to hear sweeter lips Don't make it brief 'cos I like it Will last forever if you too like it They say Love is blind, I hope they won't unblind it You see the love awaiting us, close your eyes we go pick it I thought they were mad when they said " I'm up all night thinking bout you," I thought they were exaggerative when they said "you mean the world to me," I thought they were to please when they said,    "you are all I need, what of food?" I thought you should know that all these, to name a few, have come to pass from the first day I saw you I saw my dime piece, I saw the walking angel mistakenly on earth When you walk past any group of creatures, all turn to have a glance at your worth In their eyesight, none can barely breat

WHAT IF I HAD TOLD YOU WHAT I FEEL?

Regretting the moments I took for granted, Moments when I was eaten by pride and hatred. What if I had told you what I feel? Would it change my life's wheel? I was so afraid to fall in love deeply, For mending a broken heart will never be easy. I have been rotting in that hell before, And I don't want to be there anymore. But why is my heart crying in pain? Why do I feel that my life's turning so plain? Should I have told you that I love you? Should I have showed you that it's true? They say some words are better left unsaid, Emotions should be kept till they fade. No, scratch all the cowardice and negativity, Because saying what you feel is the real bravery. So what if you won't love me back? At least there will be no what if's in my mind. But it's too late for me to realize this fact, 'Cause now you're gone and you'll never be mine.

Truly i'll be there

As long i hate to admit this is true I can't regret for always having you Before i was nervous and scared And you made me fight my fears Fight for what i want,you really cared Mostly thinking of you makes me into tears I was lost,life was meaningless You were there to give me a hand Times when I was down on my weakness You gave me the hope and courage to stand Grow old with me,the best is yet to be. We may not have met lately but our hearts did we are together mostly so as we all succeed And suddenly all the love songs were about you you have no idea how much i love you Finally i can say dreams come throu' Walking in the moonlight,staying out late  seeing the stars in the sky.. even if i stay with you the whole day  i miss you the second you say bye Your my description of perfect... Sometimes i wish i could give you my eyes  so as you can see wht i see into you See how is hard for me letting you go.. The moment you do something stupid ilove you more Al&

WHAT IF YOU MARRY YOUR AGEMATE!?

Your age difference matters How do you think your relationship will end up if you marry or date a girl whom you are age mates or is older than you? I've been asking myself this question several times until I met a friend who actually knows much about relationships than I do. Eddy Nika , a great life coach, came up with a scientific and intellectual evidence that actually answered my question and furthermore disapproving my view. I changed my view immediately 😉. I would like to share with you some of the things that I took note of. Dating and marrying in this context is one thing. According to Eddy Nika, its scientifically proven that a girl matures at the age of 9 and on the the other hand, a boy child matures at the age of 12. Bringing an age difference of three years. Meaning if you marry a girl of your age, she's three years older than you in thinking and maturity. Take in mind that you are supposed to lead the family and not your wife. What if you marry a lady who

iBELIEVE

I Thought i should talk about that day But every time i try,I've nothing to say I think I'm falling in love with you again I'm a little nervous,last time i did you left me in pain. Lemme ask, will we still be hanging out!? The previous one was awesome,you made me believe That I'm not damn and I've never been I think im the one,i've no doubt I was just feeling my self,feeling a relief.. A relief from my low key. The hours we spent together, You unlocked doors and opened windows that weren't even there before. It was like a game that we played and both won. My heart now beats more passionately. Your not a seductive but you raised my esteem I had the most beautiful view when i looked into your eyes I saw a galaxy  of love. If every time i think of you i had i flower now i would walk in my garden. Is this love;!? Does it mean im in love?!?

7 tips on Winning your his or her heart

 Having a crush on someone either a boy or a girl is normal in this century. Many people find it hard to approach their crushes or even to let them know that they are having a crush. Let me share with you my experience on how to win someone you are having a crush on. . First and foremost, you need to let him or her know that you are interested in em. By this you don't necessarily need to tell them face to face. If you feel shy there is still room to accommodate you. >make eye contact with your crush. The moment you realize he or she looking back at you, you need to get your eyes off them. Looking at your crush for too long might seem weird and won't show interest at all. > talk to your crush regularly. You can say hi to him or her everytime you meet, with a smile on your face. >ask some relevant questions. Like if you are in an institution, you can ask where the school library is located even if you know where it is. Ask with some sense of humor such that it may be

How To Make Your First Date successfully

How to make your first date successful There was a day I went to visit my aunt who had lived in the city most of her lifetime. As we sat waiting for tea to be prepared, she was greatly concerned about my wellbeing. She asked alot of questions on how I'm going on with my youthfulness and among them was do you have a girlfriend. I intended to say No but to the love of my loved one at least I was honest to her. I didn't actually know why she asked that question but from her reaction I realized that she was positive. She then asked me if I have ever took her on a date or a walk... Of which I said No and went ahead to say that I was planning to do so the following weekend. I was honest. Then she told me of how her first date was . What she said really touched me and I learnt alot from how the date was actually conducted. This article would be very helpful for anyone going for a date with a new catch and more-so if it's your first date. 1. Keep time. If you're going out fo