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Reasons why kids hate school

Take a moment to ask one of the kids around you why they don't like going to school and the first thing that will come out from them is "school is a prison." Why do they have to call it prison ? Well, you know very well that it's from school that they get to learn basics of life and maybe for their good performance, one will be able to secure a good paying job. School time might turn out to be a jail time for most of the students. Hold a school on your right hand and on the other hand uproot a prison. See what might have made these kids to call school a prison. Anyway nobody enjoys being in prison except for the few- special case. Reason being, in prison, you are denied your freedom. Freedom denial in schools make these kids directly compare school to a prison. Everything that these kids do in school is directed, supervised, controlled and coordinated by the seniors. Kids don't have a choice but to do what their seniors want them to do. These kids at times h

LIKE OR LOVE

Like or love You are probably growing up with these two complex terms at the back of your head, trying to define them, to see the difference. You remember that one person who told you " I really like you" then the next one came up with " I really love you." "Eeeh, so you like me and you don't love me?"  It's really challenging, right? Growing up as a teenager, with that little pressure of having a partner, I found it quite hard deciding which word was appropriate now and then. At first I knew one was the opposite of the other. I like you An extremely powerful enemy to young men. Young men thinks once a lady tells you 'I like you' then you have been peacefully laid in the friend zone. Well, that might be the case for some instances. But generally, Like has something to do with your mind. When you like someone, it means you are happy having them around you, you enjoy their company. It's more of an outer emotion towards someone. L

COMMON REASONS WHY COUPLES DIVORCE.

Common reasons why couples divorce After doing a little research here and there, divorced couples and the reunited ones, I've come to notice a lot more reasons as to why marriages fail. This article that I'm about to share with you is based on opinion and experience gained from various field studies and research. There is no science behind it. Have you ever wondered why marriages fail, why couples divorce? The answer is YES. Then why does it happen that individuals who proposed to each other the previous day or accepted the proposal are no more today?   I had to hit the road to meet various divorced couples to find out a few reasons as to why he or she thinks they just had to sign the papers. Communication This seemed to be the top reason for divorce. Lack of proper communication among these two people. If at all something goes wrong, it's a matter of sitting down around the table and talking it out in a more formal way while coming up with solutions. The moment issu

KNOW A MAN

Ladies, are you aware that the man you are dating might be cheating? Some men will cheat on you no matter how loyal or gorgeous you are. Don't be surprised to find out that he's cheating on you with a lady who might not even be your standards. Some men(not all) will look for a reason for you to break up as long as he has gotten what he wanted. Okay so far if you are dating one of my friends he is cheating on you. Let focus on what brought us here. They are two types of men. Most men and few men. Most men are cowards the kind of men that fear relationships ,that is, they want to hit and run because they can't handle responsibilities that come up when they are in a relationship. That is taking you for a date, others don't even want to be seen around with you. Like they feel embarrassed for having you. Most men always lie just to win your heart. The kind that my colleague said that they say,"we meant to be."And others are mature liars, I mean they will make a

DESTINY OF LOVERS

The destiny of lovers. Yes, the destiny. Do you believe in existence of a destiny, do you believe in existence of fate, what about fortune? After various occurrences in my life, and also some of my friends, I  now have a strong belief in the existence of destiny, especially destiny of lovers. Ever since I was young, I've been doubting these five words, "we were meant to be." It's a common sentence especially among the youths. About thirty percent of those who say this always mean what they say, the other percentage might just use it to win hearts or because they heard it from a friend. Some use it because they were advised to. What I'm trying to say is that not everyone who tells you, "we were meant to be," is declaring their true feelings and I know some of us know this and agree with me. The destiny of lovers to me is love that was predetermined and that's where the phrase *meant to be* comes from. There are people among us who were meant to be

The Strongest Girl i Ever Knew

She never got to dance Or go to her own prom. She never got the chance To forget where she came from. She never got to kiss, A man she idolized. She never felt love's bliss, 'Cause she was paralyzed. She never got to talk About love with a smile. She never got to walk Down a church's aisle. She never got to say Those precious words, "I Do." But she was far and away The strongest girl I ever knew. She couldn't brush her hair Or put make up on her face. She couldn't hold you dear Or give you a warm embrace. She couldn't clasp her hands As if in the form of prayer. She couldn't understand Why she was in a wheelchair. She never showed her fears Or let you hear her cries. She never showed the tears That fell down from her eyes. She never looked for pity Or sympathy from you. That's why she'll always be The strongest girl I ever knew Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/the-strongest-girl-i-ever-knew

LONER

The enormous red and black beauty of the sky, Always been free to fly. But since all the little creatures- With their bows and arrows- Inhabited the lands, Freedom is no longer grace. In disbelief that I am the only one of my kind, Always hiding behind the great green vines, Trying to pretend everything is fine. A lonely mystical creature, A pure, fierce beauty of the empty blue sky. All alone in a big black hole of despair, Weeping over the devastation. The once beautiful, once peaceful land, Is now an unsafe land of ruins. Flying with nothing but peace in my mind, Over the misty mountains, And the colourful fields full of flowers. Hearing the screams of the little creatures. Then, suddenly a sharp silver arrow through the head, Dropping involuntarily to the ground, Like an unwanted piece of meat, Not being able to fend off all the beating and bashing. My soul starts slowly drifting to a more peaceful place, Where my mystical family gracefully fly free, A plac

If I Could Tell

When I see you in the morning, it brightens up my day. There are so many thoughts on my mind, so many words I want to say. I want to tell you how I feel, but the words I cannot find. They're all mixed up with my thoughts that are running through my mind. I've been keeping it locked up because I know there's not a chance. You never look my way. You don't even take a glance. You don't even know you're doing this, toying with my heart. I wish I could just tell you, but I don't know where to start. Should I tell you how much you mean to me or how badly I want to be with you? If I were to say these things how would you react, what would you do? Would you never talk to me again? Would you never look my way? That would just bring me back to where I am today. Then I'd start all over and choose a different route to make you understand my feelings that want out. I don't know what to do or even how to say. Maybe I should lock it up

STILL THE ONE

My first promise was  i'll never be your EX. Second was to never,ever let you go. That is i'll fight for you no matter what! And i was ready for what will come next. I had no thoughts of loving any more. You had wholly engulfed my heart. Good thing i still love you the same.. I couldn't love you more i was at the climax. You also made your promises Im greatful you kept them. We still progressing.. despite the ups and down. Cause i know i  for a record you've never let me down. You always pick me, and dust me up.. Its now our Seventh anniversary. You've told me many of the  best things i yearned to hear. To an extend i just remember a summary You always tell me i have no idea of how much you love me.. You always say you love my deep voice. Its the music that everyday you want to hear And I'm always your best choice. I know they will be more,same time next year. We've the best moments that i just want to live in. Like the day i took

DID YOU MEAN WHAT YOU SAID?!

He blew into my life like a sweet summer breeze, Stole my heart in an instant, made me weak in the knees... He seemed so sincere when he'd look in my eyes And say the things I've waited to hear my whole life. I thought he was different... I thought he was real. I never thought I could feel the way he made me feel. I just don't understand why he wasted the time When there was nothing to gain on his end or mine. It was perfectly senseless...not one reason why. He would just disappear without saying goodbye. He had me floating on air, then let me crash to the ground. It's too much to wrap my mind around. Why play at being real? No one wins in the end. Someone always gets hurt when the other pretends. Why say all those things when you don't mean a word? It's mean and it's cruel...it's completely absurd. Now I'm left here to wonder what could've gone wrong, Why he just stopped calling, why he strung me along? My thoughts, th

MY BEST FRIEND

You always answer when I call And help me up if I should fall, But you never complain at all, My true friend. You confront me when I am wrong But will never scold me for long, Instead, you try to keep me strong, My true friend. You know the funny things to say To make me laugh my fears away. Like the sun, you brighten my day, My true friend. You see in me gifts I deny And urge me to give things a try. You spread for me my wings to fly, My true friend. You always perceive what I need And offer it before I plead. Just like a book, my mind you read, My true friend. You value little things I do But won't brag of what you do too. How can I ever repay you, My true friend? And greatest of all I have found When times are tough and I'm down, You are the one who sticks around, My true friend

5 ways To avoid nervousness

5 ways To avoid nervousness Nervousness can easily get the best of us. In situations like public speaking, first date, meeting new people, interviews and so on, most of us tends to feel highly excited, acutely uneasy and unnatural. This can be easily detected by the person you are with or the people you are addressing. Nervousness can be a serious disease for most people but it can also be cured so easily. I've witnessed it being a big problem to most of my friends and that's why I decided to share with you my experience on how to overcome nervousness. Dress comfortably This applies all through. Whether you are going for a date, an interview , a public speaking session, or somewhere new, you should put on clothes that you feel comfortable wearing. You might have that pair of Jordans that you like so much but your feet don't fit easily, no. You won't be able to walk easily and you won't be at ease. You might also have that pair of heels that you purchased just the

MY ENCOUNTER WITH FIRST SIGHT ATTRACTION

First sight attraction So I believe all of us have come across the question; do you believe in love at first sight? Well, everyone has his or her own answers to that. Basically love at first sight is that strong and romantic feeling of attraction to a stranger or someone you are meeting for the first time. My first experience of love at first sight, I was in my third year in High School. This particular day we had closed school for a few weeks holiday and I was traveling back home by a public bus. The distance from school to home was quite long   approximately eight hours journey. I was seated at the back seats feeling so exhausted and stressed since I had not performed very well that semester and I had to take my results home. We had traveled approximately three quarters of the journey. Then the bus stopped by to pick some passengers. The bus took quite some time at the bus stop and I felt asleep on the other seat next to mine meant for another passenger. After a few minutes, in m

WHY IS UNDERSTANDING SO IMPORTANT?

Why is UNDERSTANDING more important? I've come across many successful and successfully unsuccessful relationships and this kind of got me thinking of the reasons why some people can't have each other for even a month while others go for over fifty years. The question I always ask myself is "why do you have to marry or propose to someone,then after a few days later you are no more?" It's obvious that at the moment you are getting married, there must be Love between the two parties. I bet you can't propose or say yes to someone you don't really love. Well, you can, for some rare cases, but most often, you'll only marry someone you love. Then why do you end up parting ways? After a while you'll start hearing words like," I loved you but I don't love you anymore," "we were not meant to be," "I'm giving up on you," "you are always negative on me"...and many more. If you have gone through such, you are n

IT CAME SLOWLY

I  never thought this would happen. It took time i came so slowly. buh took all of me wholly I never knew i would fall in love again Although love had cost me a lot of pain It like floods started by a drop of rain Now you have no idea how much  you mean to me. Just be good to me. I know how it feels when you say im  your world.  While im there lacking even a word. Falling in love with you is like falling in a pit without hit a bottom. It doesn't matter the background we both come from. What matters is,will we be together during and after prom? You have all my time,all the attention,because i can't be at ease without you. I wont talk about how good your kisses are, I would rather talk about how tasty your lips are. .......TO BE CONTINUED Click to Read More   this can be the last post, comment if you want more posts thank you