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Pornography in our society-(part 1)

After a vivid research from people around me and the internet i found out that 70% of internet traffic is porn and Also very one in the world has at least watched or seen a pornographic material.And its the Industry that makes a lot of money from Monetization sites like Adsense and so on. If you want to get more views, Likes,followers etc well the porn industry can grow those to millions  drastically within hours.. When thinking about our generation we know that everything we do is influenced by technology in some form. Everything we could ever want to find is at the tip of our fingers. Keeping that in mind, it’s fascinating to consider what technology has done to our opinions on sex. Pornography dates back to the beginning of time and although it’s always been part of society, its now a billion dollar entertainment industry and growing. The male perspective of sex and women has been increasingly growing to be more theatrical than real. In the 1960’s when the pornography industry re

Foundation of crushing

Foundation of crushing So, it's been weeks down the line and she's growing more beautiful day by day. He's getting more handsome or should I say 'Handsomer' (I hope Mr. and Mrs. Grammar would allow me to). I always enjoy witnessing the drama, when one of my friends starts having a crush on someone and I bet they also like the drama when I have a crush on some girl. I have experienced the pressure that a person undergoes when he or she is having a crush on someone else whom they might have never talked and, truthfully speaking, it's kind of  'dangerous' to some individuals. It's important for you to start making moves as soon as you see 'the one'. Yeah, you can simply say "hi" today, tomorrow you stop by and greet them with your hands or simply say "hi" with a smile. This will help make them notice you. And just like that, you would have laid the foundation, the groundwork, for everything. Y'all know the importance

Oh World!

Baby you mean the world to me And I know we were meant to be I've never felt this way about someone I know that you are the one You’re the only girl I want to be with For the rest of my life And I always dream about the day That I make you my wife I can't even begin to explain How you make me feel You make my heart beat so fast It seems too good to be real I wish you were here with me now So I could kiss those soft lips of yours I'd caress your beautiful face And prove that I love you more I want to fall asleep next to you every night And wake up every morning knowing You'll be the first thing in my sight It would break my heart If we ever left each other So lets stay together forever Up 'til our last breath

MY LADY,YOU!

When I first met you, I was all in a trance, I told you my secrets, you told me yours. I bet you thought I'd never love you,, who would have thought. We would be more than just friends, I got to know the real person you. A soul so caring, a soul so dear, with a heart so true, your love so pure. You are the wings that fly me to the moon, I'll never leave, I'll rather stay, Because of the feelings, I have for you. You're my shining star, in life's blue sky, and sometimes, I wonder, is this all so true? So I've decided, time will tell. If we're to be, Time will reveal, what lies ahead. But always remember, what I am saying. Meeting you, has changed my life, I truly love you. the feelings I feel, I feel for you, I'll never let you go. I need you so, you'll always be, my sweet lady, ''you''!

IF I COULD HAVE JUST ONE WISH

If I could have just one wish, I would wish to wake up everyday to the sound of your breath on my neck, the warmth of your lips on my cheek, the touch of your fingers on my skin, and the feel of your heart beating with mine... Knowing that I could never find that feeling with anyone other than you. If I could make a wish And have it last forever and a day, I would take you in my arms And this is where I'd stay.. For there's no one else I know That holds my heart like you, And I know someday, baby, You'll realize this is true. If I could make a wish Your lips would be on mine, I'd slowly sip and savor you Like only the finest wine. For there's no one else I know That gives me so much pleasure, And I know someday, baby, You'll see that you're my treasure. If I could make a wish Our bodies would unite, There's nothing I'd love more Than making love all night. For there's no one else I know Who gives me passion like yo

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, IT HURTS.

I love you so much it hurts I will never let you go. I would be lost without you, Lost and all alone. I know what you are thinking; I can see your doubt. Let me say you’ve taught me what love is all about. It has not been easy. Some hard lessons have been learned. We have both had to work for the trust we’ve earned. Nothing good comes easy. Isn’t that the way it goes? There is one thing I know for sure, you keep me on my toes. I love you so much it hurts. It tears me up inside. I laugh so hard it hurts. It hurts so good I cry. Out love means the world to me. It is my sun, my moon. It is the reason that I feel empty without you. In this world I am alone, without you by my side. If I need love or comfort, in your arms I hide. I love you so much it hurts, And I love that pain. If we fail in love together, I will never love again.

THREE FAMOUS WORDS

It was the first time that they met, They didn't have a clue, The future that would await them, The feelings they never knew. It was the guy's eyes that she had seen, They were brown and dark as night, It was the girl's friendly smile, And their love at first sight. It was the first time that they spoke, And no, it was no myth, That while she stared into his eyes, He was the one she wanted to be with. Even though he felt the same, But this girl, she did not know, That he loved her with all his heart, But his feelings he did not show. So after many hopeless days, The girl no more believed in fate, That was when the guy realized, That he had made a huge mistake. He came back just in time, To steal that poor girl's heart away, She forgave and she forgot, All the nights she layed awake. He told her that he was sorry, And if he could have a second chance, And it was just a while after, That they had their first kiss and dance, He always tel

WILL YOU EVER LOVE ME?

You say you're single.. when i try to make a move You say you're already taken. You say im the one you love In the morning you say you're mistaken.  We arrange for a date,you don't show up. I book a luxurious room, i sleep alone again you don't show up. Sometimes its good to let go. Will you ever love me? Its better you let me know. I thought buying time staying around you Will make you fall in love even for a minute. I thought loving you more will give you a reason to like me or so. But it was the reason for you to hate  me more,so be it. I think I'm like putting you into pressure. And still when i want to cut you off you start acting nice. I need to know will you ever love me? I make lots of sacrifices trying to impress you,showing you nobody can love you like i do, But they even don't bother you,they are nothing. I struggle to get what you're lacking. The minute i say i don't need you ,enough is enough,is the minute you say

Priceless

I gaze at her from here to there. She got a smile so priceless they call her millionaire. Better yet she looks like a billionaire. Her heart of for lost souls everywhere. I know she has what it takes to make it anywhere. Buh i ask myself,will i be there? To witness this flower finally bloom. That can touch a soul that was lost and filled with Dust. Boom! it hits me that she is a friend of mine. I'm like the poor farmer who digs in his shamba and finds a goldmine. Mine!Mine! he shouts they all label him a nut, But all i needed was right next to me. I'm glad i have a sweet friend like thee I'm thankful that my day can be spent around thee. Everyday i wake up i thank God for this. For this you are a friend who i can trust. I love the way you are,just the way you are . Dont try be like anybody else. Coz I'm satisfied with the "mtoto mzuri"(beautiful girl)you already are. If you can change anything then change this,Nothing.

Reasons why kids hate school

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Take a moment to ask one of the kids around you why they don't like going to school and the first thing that will come out from them is "school is a prison." Why do they have to call it prison ? Well, you know very well that it's from school that they get to learn basics of life and maybe for their good performance, one will be able to secure a good paying job. School time might turn out to be a jail time for most of the students. Hold a school on your right hand and on the other hand uproot a prison. See what might have made these kids to call school a prison. Anyway nobody enjoys being in prison except for the few- special case. Reason being, in prison, you are denied your freedom. Freedom denial in schools make these kids directly compare school to a prison. Everything that these kids do in school is directed, supervised, controlled and coordinated by the seniors. Kids don't have a choice but to do what their seniors want them to do. These kids at times h

LIKE OR LOVE

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Like or love You are probably growing up with these two complex terms at the back of your head, trying to define them, to see the difference. You remember that one person who told you " I really like you" then the next one came up with " I really love you." "Eeeh, so you like me and you don't love me?"  It's really challenging, right? Growing up as a teenager, with that little pressure of having a partner, I found it quite hard deciding which word was appropriate now and then. At first I knew one was the opposite of the other. I like you An extremely powerful enemy to young men. Young men thinks once a lady tells you 'I like you' then you have been peacefully laid in the friend zone. Well, that might be the case for some instances. But generally, Like has something to do with your mind. When you like someone, it means you are happy having them around you, you enjoy their company. It's more of an outer emotion towards someone. L

COMMON REASONS WHY COUPLES DIVORCE.

Common reasons why couples divorce After doing a little research here and there, divorced couples and the reunited ones, I've come to notice a lot more reasons as to why marriages fail. This article that I'm about to share with you is based on opinion and experience gained from various field studies and research. There is no science behind it. Have you ever wondered why marriages fail, why couples divorce? The answer is YES. Then why does it happen that individuals who proposed to each other the previous day or accepted the proposal are no more today?   I had to hit the road to meet various divorced couples to find out a few reasons as to why he or she thinks they just had to sign the papers. Communication This seemed to be the top reason for divorce. Lack of proper communication among these two people. If at all something goes wrong, it's a matter of sitting down around the table and talking it out in a more formal way while coming up with solutions. The moment issu

KNOW A MAN

Ladies, are you aware that the man you are dating might be cheating? Some men will cheat on you no matter how loyal or gorgeous you are. Don't be surprised to find out that he's cheating on you with a lady who might not even be your standards. Some men(not all) will look for a reason for you to break up as long as he has gotten what he wanted. Okay so far if you are dating one of my friends he is cheating on you. Let focus on what brought us here. They are two types of men. Most men and few men. Most men are cowards the kind of men that fear relationships ,that is, they want to hit and run because they can't handle responsibilities that come up when they are in a relationship. That is taking you for a date, others don't even want to be seen around with you. Like they feel embarrassed for having you. Most men always lie just to win your heart. The kind that my colleague said that they say,"we meant to be."And others are mature liars, I mean they will make a

DESTINY OF LOVERS

The destiny of lovers. Yes, the destiny. Do you believe in existence of a destiny, do you believe in existence of fate, what about fortune? After various occurrences in my life, and also some of my friends, I  now have a strong belief in the existence of destiny, especially destiny of lovers. Ever since I was young, I've been doubting these five words, "we were meant to be." It's a common sentence especially among the youths. About thirty percent of those who say this always mean what they say, the other percentage might just use it to win hearts or because they heard it from a friend. Some use it because they were advised to. What I'm trying to say is that not everyone who tells you, "we were meant to be," is declaring their true feelings and I know some of us know this and agree with me. The destiny of lovers to me is love that was predetermined and that's where the phrase *meant to be* comes from. There are people among us who were meant to be

The Strongest Girl i Ever Knew

She never got to dance Or go to her own prom. She never got the chance To forget where she came from. She never got to kiss, A man she idolized. She never felt love's bliss, 'Cause she was paralyzed. She never got to talk About love with a smile. She never got to walk Down a church's aisle. She never got to say Those precious words, "I Do." But she was far and away The strongest girl I ever knew. She couldn't brush her hair Or put make up on her face. She couldn't hold you dear Or give you a warm embrace. She couldn't clasp her hands As if in the form of prayer. She couldn't understand Why she was in a wheelchair. She never showed her fears Or let you hear her cries. She never showed the tears That fell down from her eyes. She never looked for pity Or sympathy from you. That's why she'll always be The strongest girl I ever knew Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/the-strongest-girl-i-ever-knew