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20 basic laws of manhood

1.        Never beat your wife/girlfriend and never let the urge for sex make you rape. You won’t like your sister to experience any of these, let alone your mother. 2.        Avoid at all costs, flirting with other peoples’ wives or girlfriends. Some people out here are very aggressive and they might not take it casually. 3.        Never and never sleep with your friend’s wife/girlfriend. Someone will sleep with yours too. 4.        Maintain good hygiene at all times. Be well groomed at all times, dependent on the occasion. Don’t dress like a boxer when you are attending a stakeholders meeting. 5.        Exercise regularly and keep good physic. It can help scare away robbers and the likes. 6.        Avoid getting broke by all means. Turn yourself into a tough hustler. Lack of money is the spring of all evil. 7.        Stand up to your bullies. Speak up and don’t let anyone make you feel less of a man. Walk away from toxic relationships, including toxic

life saving tips

Here are some life saving tips you can make a norm. 1.        Don’t abandon your drink uncovered in the bar or any public gatherings for more than 10s. Be cautious. 2.        Call for help as soon as you reach an accident scene. Don’t assume someone has done it. They are also assuming the same. 3.        Quit drinking and smoking. You are reducing your days on earth. 4.        Avoid porn and musterbation. Save your sex life and your relationship. 5.        Avoid getting into fights and unnecessary arguments. You don’t know how armed someone is. 6.        Do not drink and drive. Save your life and that of some innocent person. 7.        Avoid stress at all costs. Save yourself from despair, depression and hypertension. 8.        Science proves that if you eat raw vegetable every day, it’ll help keep your bowels open and your skin less leathery. 9.        Work out frequently. You’ll look nice unclothed. 10.    Don’t argue. You’ll feel press

Basic unwritten social rules

1.      Take those ear/headphones off when you are walking with a friend. Take them off when you are talking to someone. 2.      Excuse yourself from the group and pick that call in a distant. 3.      Splutter the chewing gum when talking to an elder person 4.      Your handshakes say a lot about you. Keep yours firm and always stand up when shaking hands with someone. 5.      Don’t arbitrarily take selfies with people without their consent. 6.      Quit asking apparent questions to keep the chat flowing. It’s a total turn off and really boring 7.      Do not lie about your feelings. Don’t tell them you don’t love them only to look principled, they’ll move on and it will hurt you to your grave. Don’t tell them you love them only to get in their chinos. 8.      Quit giving advises  to people who haven’t asked for it, they won’t attach value to it. 9.      Avoid them friends who only call you when they need something from you. 10. Never pay for sex,

I'm I Invisible?

I want to go away or maybe die I cry buh you don't see my tears, why?  I'm always here buh you don't see me. I'm I so Invisible? or Just not worth anything Whenever I try to be seen I become annoying Whenever I try to seen you think I'm Joking I'm always there whenever you need me. where are you when I need you?  You Just Ignoring me.  I'm I not worth anything? I always do anything for you. Tell me If I'm forcing myself around you. Because I'm tired of you taking me as a fool I'll always help  you but not that way.  I want to stay buh I'm always Invisible. Im shredded Inside buh I can afford to smile. I know I should Express how I feel, the anger the pain But whats the point, what Is In for me to gain Im really tired of feeling this way. I should go away no one will look for me. I'm Invisible. Do you really not see me? As an Option. Why don't you consider me? I'm I a loser for putt

Advice for someone in 20s and early 30s

 Feel free to add more ideas from your experience down on the comment section. 1.        Read more and more Human brain is so far the fastest supercomputer ever discovered. It is super elastic and for that reason, no amount of knowledge will ever limit its functionality. Do not limit yourself. Read more self help books and blogs and you will realize you are making much improvement as a person. We live in an era where almost everything is available on the internet. Think of this, you are a business student and much of the training you get in college is majorly on economics and basic finance, if you are engage yourself in reading articles on psychology and human behavior, trust me you will be far ahead of any other business student who only focused on the class work. 2.        Network It’s all about making friends, meeting new people. Human beings are social beings and for us to live a happy life we have to be socially active. Living in isolation is never a good idea whe

It's Not Worth It

In our daily life, we get to do a lot of things that do not count at all. I’ll like to point out a few things that you can really do better than. 1.      Drugs Smoking, drinking or such illegal drugs that are not prescribed is never worth it, as a matter of fact if you have never tried any, just don’t think about it. You are playing with a possible addiction that might end up ruining your peaceful life. One thing about drugs is that when you use them after a few days they’ll start controlling your brain, and that’s where addiction jumps in. You won’t be able to control the urge once it gets into your brain. So why try something totally harmful. Some of us might have already fallen victims of addiction, one recommended way out of it is to avoid; avoid friends who buy you such drugs, avoid going to places where you know very well, you’ll meet your bright nightmare. Actually, I believe this is all they do in rehab, they help you avoid and change your mindset. Yes, re

Alive

They said I would never feel higher than this They said I would never get to ride on clouds and paint the sky They said I would never be able to touch the stars. They forgot that I have you Your love does that for me You do that for me I get lost in you And I never want to be found Galaxies spin when our souls collide The stars sing when my lips find yours And my heart beats again when your love finds mine. You intoxicate me When I'm with you Hands shake My pulse races Heart beats fast My knees grow weak Sensations explode When I'm with you I feel alive

Secretly In Love

You're asking why I care for you this way. You're asking how I could smile every day. Having you around makes my day smooth and easy. Without you, It's hard for me to end a day. If only I could say, "I've loved you since the day I met you." I always stare at you from afar. There's nothing I can do but keep it inside, Wishing that you would know the deep feelings I have. You're telling stories about the person you've met. You said that you're really in love, And it stopped my heart from beating. I said, "I'm happy for you," with a smile on my face, But what I have inside is a heart that keeps on crying. If only I could say, "I could be the one that could love you in a special way." There's nothing I can do but keep it this way, Wishing that you would know all the secrets I've kept, Secrets I've kept for our friendship to stay. Our Android App: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details

Gone

I miss the times when you were here, Telling me to have no fear. To hold my head up high and strong, Add happy notes to my sad song. I miss the way you look at me As if I were too blind to see. The path I'm on might hurt and scathe, But all goes well if you just have faith. I miss the sound of your sweet voice, Through bitter times a saving noise That told me what was right and wrong But rang in my ears for far too long. A caring person, you were such Who helped and hurt me, oh so much. You'd guide and mislead me through the day You left me lonely when I'd rather you stay. Over things like that you had no control. A rock set in motion will continue to roll. No matter how hard you tug and heave, You were always pushed and forced to leave. Then one day you never returned, My tears so hot they almost burned. Aware now about what I lack, But crying and mourning won't bring you back. For me to let out what I need to say. I can't do much mor

Why I chose you

I've always underestimated myself, Always tried to humble myself, But when it came to true affection, Settling was out of the question. I used to settle for the ones in my league, Continually thinking that my game was weak. So what if she's just alright? It's just a girl, am I not right? But this is love we're talking about, A force larger than all doubts. This girl could be my wife. She could reflect my entire life. And so when I saw the perfect one, I thought, it's her or none. Might as well give it a shot. For once I'll be the man I'm not. I chose her because she was the best. I fell in love with her; God knows the rest. Convincing myself I'm more than a mess, God gave me perfection and nothing less. Mina Milad.

Silence Is Gold

It is not your conversation That keeps me entertained But rather the way you look at me That makes me feel sustained It's the curve of your lips And the curl of your hair T'is all of the little things That make me stop and stare It is not your intelligence That drew me close to you It is not your sense of humour That has thrown me all askew It's the touch of your hand And the thoughts in your head T'is all of the little things The things that don't get said It's not your vivid history That's made me fall in love It's not your comprehension Of the world or what's above It is your soft temperament And the way you smile at me T'is all of the little things That make me want to see It's not when we are talking That I want to know some more It is not whilst you teach me I learn what I'm looking for It is the time we spend alone And the time in utter silence T'is all of the little things That form a strong a

Kisumu, My ancestries

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null Fetched into being by the meticulous trawl locators And the skilled endeavors of the venders, Kisumo , convoluting a good shoreline of the cloistered, crisp liquids of Lake Victoria on its left bicep, with the Winam Gulf at its southern shores, neighboring its equally-intelligent Siaya brothers, on the west-most wing, Northing Vihiga and the greenish Kericho. As you maneuver through the perfectly affiliated, impermeable towers of strength at Nyakach , you will be dearly welcomed by our vigilant brother, who forged its presence from the altruistic, perfect overflow of fish-filled fresh waters into its skin , Homabay, to the south west, and the extraneous dialect speaking, banana-enthusiast nephews at Nyamira . You’ll be sandwiched amid the soldierly contours of Maseno resting their most furious sword on the fresh waters of Nam Ataro And the linguist, but local software observant denizens of Seme Take a selfie at the autonomo

I Should Give Up

Should I give up on this fight? A lot of hatred In my heart To forgive Its really Hard Its Like smiling when you really mad I don't want to go down that road. I want my smile to be wide and broad I want to forgive, I want forget and take off this load Believe In The Lord, how hard Is That? Im so tired of hiding, How do I feel about that? I'm I weak because Im kind and caring? Or I'm Just pretending? I want love you, but I don't want to fall for you. I don't want to leave buh I hug you good bye. I want to go out buh I want to stay indoors. I want to talk buh Ive Nothing to say. what's the point of doing the opposite of what I like? what's the point of saying things I don't mean? what's the point of pushing away people who seem to care about you? what's the point of denying what I want? Maybe there's no answer to that. Or I'm just scared of having my feelings out Or I care so much about what people think I don

How are We?

Please tell me something, and do not lie. Is something fading between you and I? I've noticed changes in the recent past and waited patiently, hoping it wouldn't last. I give everything I can give you, but what's given back seems long overdue. You say nothing is wrong and you are just fine, acting as if the problem is mine. Something is different, not like it was before. I'm doing my best, trying to restore The way we showed love to one another without crowding you or trying to smother. I just need to know if one thing is true. Do you still love me as much as you used to?

I Should Go.

Why do I stay when I want to go? Is it because I have hope? Or maybe it is because I don't want to be alone. I stay and all I do is complain. Complain that I might be going insane. Insane of the thought that it might be my fault. But who is to blame? Is it me or is it him? Neither one of us will go. Although we know we must go, All we do is ignore the pain Of all the words we exchange. I know I must go, but I don't know. If I go, I will be alone. But why do I stay? Only to hear him say, "You're to blame for all my unhappiness and pain." I know I'm not to blame for the choices he has made. So I stay, hoping he will grow, Grow in love and be consoled knowing I will never go.