It Ain't Love
IT AIN'T LOVE
It comes in different ways. Many people are more eager to share their experiences in falling in love and the romantic relationships that they are in. People rarely share their experiences out of love . Some experiences really hurts and so people prefer keeping them to themselves. At times you might be deeply in love with this special someone but they don't even care about your feelings at all. It's a bad experience and rarely do people share it. It reaches a time when the best option is to let go and move on.
All those said, some people still, are so blinded and rarely do they realize that they are being played. It's more healthier to realize it now, rather than waiting for your relationship to crack down leaving you so heartbroken, unhappy and helpless. There are some clear signs of rejection and falling relationships that I would like to share with you.
You are my BEST FRIEND.
Yeah its prettily known as the friend zone. Maybe you are falling deeply in love but the other person is playing the best friend role quite more than the boyfriend/girlfriend role. It ain't love. You will need to rectify that little something that may have you rotting in the friend zone before it is too late. Maybe you are a little less romantic or not so open about how you feel. Sure you can do better.
No attraction
You understand right that when you are so in love, you'll feel attracted to your partner no matter how ugly they are dressed or how they look like. But this feeling of attraction won't be there when love is not there. So to say, it's easier to realize that there is no love between you anymore as soon as you recognize that your senses of attraction are sharply fading. You or your partner might start coming up with reasons just to avoid holding hands. You find excuses not to kiss each other anymore. It ain't love. When you start cringing at the thought of being intimate with your loved one, yeah, all signs point to the love being gone.
The butterflies gone
The butterflies have flown away. Maybe they died or someone stole all of them. When you start to feel like the sweet romantic texts are not romantic anymore, it's a clear sign that the love is gone with the butterflies. In the recent past you would feel better being next to your lover or that 'hard-to-get' crush, but nowadays you don't anymore, there is something wrong. It was love but now it ain't.
Something is missing
Falling in love might have been easy but the feeling that you are falling out of love is unimaginable and really hard to explain. The moment you start to feel like something is missing and its not only your phone, you might need to take a look at your relationship. Those cute little things that they used to do to make you so happy and feel loved. And now everything that your partner is doing is annoying and no longer cute, sweetheart, we have a problem.
Unhappy face
A wandering face says it all. You realize that your partner is no longer happy when around you, avoids you and puts that hungry face everytime you go out, it might just be a clear sign that you are also wandering out of your relationship. It ain't Love.
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It comes in different ways. Many people are more eager to share their experiences in falling in love and the romantic relationships that they are in. People rarely share their experiences out of love . Some experiences really hurts and so people prefer keeping them to themselves. At times you might be deeply in love with this special someone but they don't even care about your feelings at all. It's a bad experience and rarely do people share it. It reaches a time when the best option is to let go and move on.
All those said, some people still, are so blinded and rarely do they realize that they are being played. It's more healthier to realize it now, rather than waiting for your relationship to crack down leaving you so heartbroken, unhappy and helpless. There are some clear signs of rejection and falling relationships that I would like to share with you.
You are my BEST FRIEND.
Yeah its prettily known as the friend zone. Maybe you are falling deeply in love but the other person is playing the best friend role quite more than the boyfriend/girlfriend role. It ain't love. You will need to rectify that little something that may have you rotting in the friend zone before it is too late. Maybe you are a little less romantic or not so open about how you feel. Sure you can do better.
No attraction
You understand right that when you are so in love, you'll feel attracted to your partner no matter how ugly they are dressed or how they look like. But this feeling of attraction won't be there when love is not there. So to say, it's easier to realize that there is no love between you anymore as soon as you recognize that your senses of attraction are sharply fading. You or your partner might start coming up with reasons just to avoid holding hands. You find excuses not to kiss each other anymore. It ain't love. When you start cringing at the thought of being intimate with your loved one, yeah, all signs point to the love being gone.
The butterflies gone
The butterflies have flown away. Maybe they died or someone stole all of them. When you start to feel like the sweet romantic texts are not romantic anymore, it's a clear sign that the love is gone with the butterflies. In the recent past you would feel better being next to your lover or that 'hard-to-get' crush, but nowadays you don't anymore, there is something wrong. It was love but now it ain't.
Something is missing
Falling in love might have been easy but the feeling that you are falling out of love is unimaginable and really hard to explain. The moment you start to feel like something is missing and its not only your phone, you might need to take a look at your relationship. Those cute little things that they used to do to make you so happy and feel loved. And now everything that your partner is doing is annoying and no longer cute, sweetheart, we have a problem.
Unhappy face
A wandering face says it all. You realize that your partner is no longer happy when around you, avoids you and puts that hungry face everytime you go out, it might just be a clear sign that you are also wandering out of your relationship. It ain't Love.
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