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What aspects should you consider while choosing a life partner?

 The following are 8 key factors to consider while choosing a life partner



1.Ability to fit well with your family


Your family was, is and will always be a key support system in your life. They can tell if your prospective life partner is suitable or unsuitable for you. If he or she cannot cope with your family members, you might be choosing a wrong partner.


2. Ability to make you laugh.


A sense of humor can help you overcome many of life's obstacles. If someone can make you smile when you don't feel like it, that's a great quality.


3. Choose someone who respects you and your ideas


When choosing a life partner be sure to select someone who will respect all aspects of your life. Mutual respect is one of the defining traits to look for in a life partner.


4. Find someone who have shared values


Having shared values reinforces the foundation of your relationship. Simple things such as consensus on the number of children you want or living within your means create a conducive environment for your relationship to thrive.


5. Choose an honest life partner


Honesty and trust. If a relationship is not enshrined in a culture of honesty and trust, it will definitely fail. Choosing a life partner who does not refrain from open and genuine communication is important.


6. Throw out the Idea of Perfect


We are human beings with faults and we are imperfect by nature. You can't conjure up your perfect mate and go buy said robot at Target. If you must make a list, make a list of deal-breakers: no smokers, no drug addictions, no one with a violent felony conviction. Those are healthy boundaries to set.


7. Know how they handle anger and stressful events


Understand that the road is bumpy at some points and emotional intelligence is very important. You'll need to observe this one rather than asking about it. Watch how they behave when they don't get their own way, are disappointed, or feel angry. How people act with others under these circumstances says a lot about how they will one day act with you.


8. Find someone who have the same financial and social standards


It is not always important to have the same status, but having a similar financial and social standard helps in thriving together. If one person is very poor and the other is very rich then there is a possibility of being called a gold digger. But there is no exact rule book but do check if your potential partner has the zeal to make it later in life.


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