Things We Do For Love.

Have you  ever asked yourself after a break up why did you love your partner?

When you look back you see nothing adorable in them. Like you wonder how you loved them. And you console yourself that love is blind, nope love is not blind it only makes you see what you want to see.

Then you look at the things you did for them, leave alone undressing, you think you were bewitched by your ancestors in Shungwaya, or wherever they came from. Respect to them anyway they are the reason for our existence.

It’s so funny how we do things when we are in love. And we can’t release that until when we break up or when we are alone mesmerizing, we really look stupid for sure but we can’t know because  that’s love.

And for that reason I also released that love is so unique to everyone, unique like DNA strands or fingerprints. Each one of us get a taste of love of their own. You are busy finding someone to love you the same way while one is busy waiting for love to come their way.

Love makes us do crazy things. And they are things we do for love and things we do for the one we love. I’ve a good example like falling in love at first sight, One of my friends fell in love at first sight despite being engaged. This is a thing we do for love. Examples of  things we do for the one we love is in the titanic story, where you die for someone you love, taking a bullet for someone you love. But all in all these are the things we do for love.

When you are in love all you want is spend all the time with your partner, they are other things to do yes, but this is all you want. It can get to a point where you no longer hang with your friends any more because you can't divide your self to be at the two places at the same time. It goes on and on ,busy travelling around the world together and  now you have each other you no longer need friends till you forget them and you don’t make new ones. And this happens a lot during marriages where one leaves his/her family to go and stay with the one they love.

Others even abandon their family and friends 

We become undecided, we no longer become ourselves.You may have your important plans but you cancel them because your love has asked you to do something for them. May be you don’t want to do it but seems unfair denying to them. Here we  say yes with our lips but deep inside we really want to argue and say no. May be you drink liquor and you get a church girl you love her she asks you to quit doing liquor, yeah most of you now see how hard that is. But anyway we still say yes and quiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit(that was hard)

Forgive the unforgivable. You love them you want them to be your forever. You can do anything for them out of love or may be to prove to them that you love them. This includes sacrifices even for oneself. Deciding  to stay hungry for her to eat whatever she wants, calling taxify to take her home safely as you walk home, the uliza kiatu(ask my shoe) style. All these and more to someone who doesn’t make same sacrifices for you  or does't love you equally, or to someone who doesn’t love you totally just faking. You then release that they are cheating on you and they no longer want to be with you, you still plead for them to stay and forgive them when you are supposed to walk away.

We sacrifice our dignity for love, we lower our self-worth for love and sometimes we become meaningless to the society because we love someone.

I’ve a stories in which  love made some people psychopaths One killed because he loved someone. He killed all those people who his crush loved so that he can have her all alone. And eventually the girl did not love him the way he wanted he killed her too.

• ·         Another guy decides to take his brothers’ wife because they loved each other forced his brother to divorce her at gun point.
• ·         Some siblings  come to me looking for a way of coming clean to their parents because they love each other and they’ve decided to marry each other. They told me that their parents were harsh to them and all  they had were each other.
• ·         Some people travel  almost have the world to see the one they love.
• ·         Some decided to stay single because the one they love never loves them.